Emotional Sadomasochism: Playing w/Feelings

We all know that the S&M component of BDSM can involve consensual hurt but what happens when the hurt that we need or crave isn't physical, but emotional? Emotional S&M can be intensely powerful and intimate, but for many of us, it is a raw, unexplored area where the differences between abuse and consensual play are not nearly as clear as with more "conventional" physical play. In this high-level class, We give a broad overview of the various types of emotional sadomasochism, the mechanisms behind the need, and the permissions necessary for us to be able to engage in receiving or inflicting emotional pain. We also investigate the special concerns for negotiation and consent and offer best practices on healthy and consensual emotional play.

Presented By:
James Gordon, Rebecca Doll

Type of workshop: Demo, Discussion