Winter Fire in Wonderland

Winter Fire — January 26-29, 2024 — Washington, DC

DO’s Winter Hotel Event Returns to Washington DC For 2024!



Let’s get this out of the way up front.

In order to attend Winter Fire you MUST:

  • 100% Fully Vaccinated (Including at least one Booster Shot)
  • AND Daily Rapid Tests aka Home Kits (Mandatory)
  • AND Indoor Masking (Optional)

Too much testing? Stay Home! Seriously, do not register if you can not agree to the above terms.

Imagine a vacation…

where you can explore the many facets of sexuality in a private, intimate community of like-minded people. A wholly unique immersive experience which brings together sexuality, spirituality, education, and play in a fun, supportive, non-judgmental, diverse environment where fantasy becomes reality.

By day, learn sexual tips and techniques to create, maintain, or revive the erotic spark in your relationship. Explore a multitude of partnering possibilities, from swinging and open relationships to threesomes and polyamory. Brush up on the basics, or get hands-on experience at new BDSM skills like bondage, flogging, sensory deprivation and Dominant/submissive dynamics. Delve into a world of spiritual journeys and teachings on Earth-based spirituality, Tantra, and paganism. Find all this and more in a series of dynamic workshops from top-notch sex educators, relationship experts, BDSM masters, and spiritual teachers.

At night, be transported to a place where people are free to explore the boundaries of their inner desires in luxuriantly equipped dungeons and sensual playspaces, transformed by our famed ambiance team into a canvass for your erotic dreams. You can also take in a show by some of the most talented performers on the east coast, delve into your inner landscape with a powerful ritual or Tantric journey, or relax and socialize with friends old and new.


Winter Fire is a weekend long kinky takeover of a luxury hotel in downtown Washington DC, right in the heart of the nation’s capitol. We are returning home to the hotel complex that hosted us for many years and they are very excited to see us again! So join us this January on an adventure of play, discovery, and learning, where we will achieve ecstatic states of love, awareness, and personal sexuality.

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 Latest News


Everyone’s been talking about it .. and now Winter Fire is almost here!
Day, Party and Workshop Only Passes are now available. Now there is no reason to miss the event of the year. Call your friends and sign up now!



Check out our amazing schedule of workshops, parties, and special events! We’d like to thank Wintersong, our programming director, for creating another amazing line-up.

Draft Workshop Schedule

Volunteers Wanted

We need lots of help to make Surrender run smoothly. Volunteering is a great way to get involved and meet people … plus we offer awesome benefits!

IONs Arrive at Winter Fire

Help turn the heat up at Winter Fire! Have a great idea for a special event, activity, workshop, or anything else … Help us make the magic happen at Winter Fire. Check out the submission form for all the details!


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