IPCookieMonster

IPCookieMonster (IG SlutPhD, Julie Fennell) is a sexual gymnast. She has been a kinky pansexual polyamorous pagan pervert for many years, and is the author of the self-dubbed collective autobiography of the BDSM scene, Please Scream Quietly: A Story of Kink, and the upcoming book Violated: Sexual Consent and Assault in the 21st Century (July 2024). A professional sociologist who has studied the BDSM scene for years, she also writes erotica, and is an occasional burlesque/ropelesque performer. When just hanging around, she’s a rope switching bondage daredevil, gleefully slutty femdom, and boot-stomping glitter fetishist. She’ll also cheerfully geek out about the spiritual aspects of sex, kink in general, and rope in particular.

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IPCookieMonster's Workshops


Have it your way: Dom/Switch/sub blowjobs

People often assume that when sucking cock, the person with the dick has the power. This workshop will prove, through demonstration, that this does not have to be so! This class will cover all the basic cock-sucking techniques such as deep-throating, applying teeth, putting a condom on with your mouth, and incorporating handjobs, using both silicone (particularly feeldoes) and circumcised and uncircumcised flesh. But the emphasis here will be on creating blowjob scenes that match whatever power dynamics you're trying to cultivate with your partner.


Paganism 101 for Kinksters

If you're kinky and wondering what the hell the people over there have been chanting about, why there's an extra "k" in "magick," or why some people drone on about "energy," this class is for you! This class will give you a brief overview of what pagans believe, how they practice, and how those beliefs and practices align well with BDSM. You don't need to believe, just be curious!


Poly-architecture: Building and maintaining different kinds of poly relationships

Polyamory is hardly a one-size-fits-all proposition. This workshop is designed to help support different types of polyamorous relationships, including what we might call polyfidelity, hierarchical polyamory, and anarchical polyamory. We will discuss the pros and cons of these relationship dynamics, and the lifestyle preferences that suit them best. We will also discuss how to build each of these types of relationships, and discuss strategies from "processing" to google calendars that help successfully maintain them.


Summer Solstice Orgy

Come celebrate the longest day of the year in style as we share intentional pleasures in each other's company! A brief opening ritual for Litha/Summer Solstice will be followed by a joyous frolic together at the Temple.