Mr O

Mr O is a creative sadist with a love of medical play, a penchant for violent grappling scenes, and a very cute bum. Having spent over two decades as a jiu jitsu competitor and instructor, he has found ways to apply his knowledge of body mechanics to kinky play and shares that in his teaching. Active in the Canadian BDSM scene since 2005, he regularly puts on workshops internationally as well as locally in the Toronto, Montreal and Ottawa areas on subjects including wrestling, grappling and medical play. With an engineering based background and scientific mind, he is known for continually inventing new devices and ways to hurt people “for science”. When he’s not being nice he can be a bit mean. And vice versa. Mr O believes strongly that successful scenes start with careful negotiation, and so teaches workshops and private classes on negotiation and consent.

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Mr O's Workshops


No More Secrets: Interrogation Play

The interrogation scene is a fantasy for many of us, and we’ll dive into different ways to go about it. This class looks at various styles of interrogations, both for people we know well, and those who are new to us. Topics include planning and negotiations; starting and ending scenes; physical, mental and psychological techniques; and safety considerations. A demonstration of some of the methods discussed will be provided. Participants are welcome to ask questions… now that you know how to make us answer.


Overly Attached: Medical Play

Tired of learning rope ties and using cuffs to keep people where you want them? Have squirmy bottoms that try to get away? We'll look at ways to use needles, piercings, fish hooks and staples to attach people to themselves, other people, or objects. We will discuss safety precautions as well as the techniques, equipment and supplies to use. A demonstration of medical bondage will be performed.


Swollen Bits: Saline Infusion Play

Saline infusion gives us a way to temporarily inflate a body part. Whether it is a scrotum, labia, breast or lips, there's always a place for it. We'll talk about the reasons why we would want to do this, how it
affects the top and bottom, and ways we can incorporate it into other play. There will be a demonstration showing the procedures and materials to use.


The Privilege We Hold

As we get experience in the kink scene, we often don’t see the privilege that we are gaining. We will look at ways to check in on ourselves, to help us stay ethical as our power relative to others grows. Whether we’re an organizer, presenter or just the most experienced player in the room, we enjoy a level of privilege that can have profound effects on negotiations, access to partners, and our interactions in general. We’ll discuss ways of honestly assessing our position and influence, so we can mitigate these power differentials and avoid taking advantage of them.