Miss Marla

Marla Renee Stewart, MA (she/her) is a sexologist, author, and sexual strategist who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips, and is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference. She has studied human sexuality for more than 22 years and has given over 1000 workshops all over the world. She also has been featured on a variety of media outlets, including Netflix’s Trigger Warning with Killer Mike and Love & HipHop Atlanta. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, which debuted in April 2020. VelvetLipsSexEd.com and SexDownSouth.com

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Miss Marla's Workshops


Art of Dirty Talk

Are you a little shy when it comes to expressing yourself in the bedroom? Or maybe you’re good in bed, but you want to bring your sexual life to new level? Whatever it is, this workshop will help you to speak up in bed, as well as get you and your partner to a more sexually arousing state. Practicing words, power, intonation and intention, we will help you to magnify your sexual potential. We will use our creative imaginations to guide us in imagery that enhances our sexual energy and also learn ways to stimulate our hormones to achieve our sexual goals. Get ready to experience just how dirty you can get!


Face Slapping Mastery

Face slapping is an art and in order to achieve those powerful feelings of arousal, you need to know how to maximize your physicality. In this class, we will go over the proper ways to face slap, how to seduce someone whether you are giving or receiving a slap, and how to leverage your body size to ensure you all are having a good time. From standing to kneeling to everything in between, we’ll go over specific techniques that you can take home with you to your next play party or dungeon experience. This is a practice class and you will be coached on your style and technique to ensure that you leave fostering your kinky success.


Sensual Pussy Torture

Are you ready to explore the pleasure in tormenting the vulva and vagina? This workshop aims at helping you to identify the ways in which pleasure is reached with all persons involved. This includes identifying the tools that you can use to torment externally, internally, and as well as invoking your psychological sadism. And of course, we’ll go over anatomy, too!


The Future of Black Kink

Are you interested in learning about the future of Black kink and where we’re headed? This presentation is to help you learn the history of kink from a Black perspective and to see how the present will shape the future for Black kinky folks. Learn about Black kink movements, Black kink changemakers, and Black kink organizations and events. We will talk about what’s been happening in the present and what the future holds for Black kinksters and how other cultures can learn from us.