Carter Brûlée

Carter Brûlée is a switchy, pansexual, polyamorous, trans boy passionate about education and dessert. He walked into his first munch at 18 years old, before he had even graduated high school, and has been hooked on the community ever since. Carter is a service oriented-submissive and occasional silly sadist. He has a bubbly personality and an enthusiasm for education that he brings into all of his teaching endeavors. In addition to teaching for location and national kink and leather organizations, Carter has taught various sexuality-related topics (including polyamory, kink, consent, and negotiation) for academic institutions.

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Carter Brûlée's Workshops


Be a Rockstar: Skills for Engaging Education

Are you ready to take your teaching game to the next level? Whether you're a seasoned educator or just starting out, this workshop is your backstage pass to becoming a rock star presenter. Effective and engaging teaching is about more than being knowledgeable or skilled– it's about finding your authentic voice and harnessing it to create unforgettable learning experiences. In this class, Carter will guide you through infusing your teaching with personality, engaging your audience, and crafting dynamic demonstrations that bring your class material to life. From figuring out what to teach and class organization and outlines to movement and stage presence, this class will provide practical tips to build your skills as an educator.


Fucking With Gender

Let’s be real, gender is a complex and multifaceted construct. There are so many aspects from gender identity, to gender presentation, and gender expression, before we even get into the societal contributions and gender roles and expectations. This class focuses on the many diverse ways you can play with gender in kink. Whether you are hoping to explore alternative presentations, affirm someone’s identity, embarrass them, or play with darker things like gender dysphoria, this discussion-based class explores the many facets of gender play and discusses negotiation considerations, strategies for fucking with gender in your play.


This sucks, why am I turned on?! Suffering Fetish

Have you ever felt like “masochist” as a label just didn’t quite resonate with you, despite playing with pain? Or you’ve been aroused by doing that one thing you hate for a partner and just couldn’t find the words for why. Then maybe your fetish is for suffering. Suffering can include more than just pain play, maybe you really hate being forced to stand still, or use self-degrading language, or folding laundry. In this class, Carter discusses various types of suffering, negotiation, aftercare, and exploring your boundaries with this type of play. Let’s talk about navigating through what can be painful, nasty, bitter, miserable, and ultimately, incredibly hot.


It’s a Trap! Playful scenes & non-bondage predicaments

This isn’t always serious work we do! Predicaments are all about getting between the proverbial “rock and hard place” (and laughing as your partner is flummoxed by their situation); playful BDSM is about giggling together in scene, with both partners participating creating the “torment.” This class will show you how to bring a different level of engagement to your BDSM play and go beyond giving and receiving sensations – create story lines and connect mentally with your partner. The instructors will address both the top and bottom’s perspective, including communicating within the mood of your scene and discussion of bratting. Leave your rope bag at home – this is NOT a bondage class! In addition to demonstrating many specific predicaments and games, they'll discuss this type of play in a broad sense to guide you in developing your own unique scenes. (This class is mostly demo and lecture, with some discussion.)