LR2009 Class Descriptions
Abduction and Rape Play with Jim & Jerith
There is something primal and animalistic about overpowering
another human being and using force to manipulate their actions.
While this form of domination is not considered safe within
the vanilla world, it can be explored in a healthy manner
within the context of a scene. Jim will discuss the methodology
of both abductions and rape play, and delve into physical
tips and tricks that will help the top gain the upper hand.
Jerith will lead a discussion on the bottom’s perspective,
and talk about maintaining your emotional safety while still
getting the most erotic bang (no pun intended!) for your buck.
Anal Play with Glenda Rider
This 'hands on' workshop will explore one of the most taboo
yet incredibly satisfying forms of sexual pleasure. We will
cover the myths and facts about anal sex and demonstrate a
variety of techniques and toys to enhance the experience.
Bootblacking 101 with Min’s Pony
What is a bootblack? Why do people choose to care for boots?
What do you need to know to care for your own boots or for
someone else's? In this class come learn both bootblacking
basics and the way it can be a sensual art of service. Bring
a pair of boots, as there will be opportunities for hands
on practice. "pony" will show you how to make your boots shine
and tell you what you need to know to make the "art" your
own.
Caning 101 - An Introduction to the Pains and Pleasures
with Glenda Rider
This workshop will cover the basic techniques of using a
cane for pain and pleasure. We will also discuss some of the
history and traditions surrounding canes, the types of canes
available today and their care. This toy strikes fear into
the souls of many bottoms at its very mention - come find
out WHY.
Christian Spirituality & BDSM with Min’s pony
This class is a discussion based class that helps the participants
come closer to an answer to the question: If you are a Christian
than how can you do THAT? We’ll explore the relationship between
faith and the “lifestyle” and how we seek to reconcile it.
Cigars and Pipes 101: Fast, Cheap and Easy with Nayland
Blake
Too often people let themselves be intimidated by the mystique
of cigars and pipes, and lose the chance to bring these sensual
objects into their play. This class will run through the basics
of choosing, preparing and playing with cigars and pipes.
Bottoms: learn how to prep cigars and pipes. Tops: learn what
to do with them once you have them lit. It's not hard or expensive
to locate good cigars to play with - learn what to look for.
Smoke and ash play will be covered, and some cigars and pipes
will be available for hands on experimentation
Creating a Medical Nightmare with Fifth Angel
Ever watch one of those late night horror movies where some
serial killer performed medical experiments on the victims?
Did you want to be the killer or the victim? Well let FifthAngel
show you both sides of the nightmare. This will not be one
of those “poke needles in the bottom and call it a medical
scene” classes. If it is not done in a hospital, it
will not be done in this class. What we will be doing is poking
tubes and catheters into every hole and orifice possible,
along with a few added surprises. If you want power, this
is the ultimate way – controlling eating, urination,
speech and even sight by means of medical intervention. Welcome
to the world of real and invasive medical scening as demonstrated
by a guy who does it for a living.
DIY Rope Treatment with Klawdya Rothchild
Rope Rope everywhere, how will you know what to pick! In
this class I will go over finishing techniques, from whipping
to knotting, for converting long lengths and raw skeins of
rope and other quick and easy ways to prepare your rope at
home. I will go over the ways to evaluate the differences
between the synthetic and natural fibers, how to dye rope
(synthetic and natural), core vs non core rope, the hows and
whys of each, and an overview of fiber differences from Nylon,
to Cotton, to Hemp, to Jute, to silk etc. I will also introduce
rope making techniques that allow you to spin fabric and other
fibers into rope!
Emotional Masochism with Jim & Jerith
Masochism can be defined as the condition in which one’s
sexual gratification is derived from suffering. Most of us
can accept the idea of physical pain enhancing a person’s
sexual experience, but what about mental anguish? Emotional
masochists experience pleasure from feelings that many people
would consider negative, among them objectification, humiliation,
jealousy, and abandonment.
During this discussion, Jim and Jerith will delve in to the
reasons that emotional masochism can be fulfilling from the
perspective of Top and bottom. They will talk about the ways
you can recognize emotions that are comfortable to play with
as well as emotions that you may need to gently nudge so as
not to cause damage. They will also discuss methods you can
use to enhance the emotional suffering of your bottom, and
demonstrate them in what they hope turns out to be an intense
emotional scene.
Everything But The Kitchen Sink - Service With Style on
the Road with Glenda Rider
It's hard enough serving your Master/Mistress/Daddy at home
but does it seem IMPOSSIBLE to meet their expectations on
the road? This class will focus on travel tips, packing lists,
helpful hints and some tricks for providing service at a leather
event with style! We will also discuss the different roles
that can comprise service away from home including room slave,
butler, personal assistant, valet and concierge.
Fear Play: Scaring the Shit out of your Partner with Jim
& Jerith
People are drawn to fear: we watch horror films, subject
ourselves to rollercoaster rides and bungee jumping, and tell
scary stories in the dark. All of these things provide a rush
because fear is an unpredictable emotion – it can inspire
your bottom to scream in fright or moan in anticipation.
Understanding the subtleties of this emotion will allow you
to skillfully manipulate your partner’s level of panic
and anxiousness. If you have ever pondered introducing the
elements of terror into one of your scenes, this presentation
is for you. Jim will cover the techniques and psychology of
fear play as well as different methods to incorporate this
you’re your scenes. The discussion will be followed
by a demonstration to illustrate this powerful kind of play.
The Finer Points of Pain and Pleasure with FifthAngel
Dating back thousands of years, pressure points have been
used as a means of healing as well as preventing illness.
In the world of SM, pressure points have many other interesting
applications. They can be used to inflict pain ranging from
mild discomfort to blinding agony - giving us that treasured
“oh, just kill me and get it over with” reaction.
At the other end of the spectrum, pressure points can be used
for intense sensual play and can even create orgasms without
direct genital stimulation.
A seemingly effortless method of inflicting pain and sensation,
the only toys needed are your body, mind and spirit. Thanks
to the subtlety and portability of this play, it works great
in public -- nobody else will ever realize why your partner
is turning red and squirming so much.
As always, FifthAngel will be happy to provide hands-on instruction
to volunteers from the workshop attendees.
The Gentle Art of Kicking, Punching, and Takedowns with
FifthAngel
Let’s get ready to rumble. A real hands-on, and feet-on
for that matter, demonstration where you will be shown how
to impact and control your bottom firmly but safely. This
will be a martial arts approach to the raw power found in
one-on-one play with no toys but your own mind and body. Emphasis
is on technique rather than strength, so anyone can learn
to play "rough." Learn physical techniques to handle
even the biggest and baddest bottom with minimal effort. Incorporate
these skills into any consensual kidnapping scene and the
excitement begins. Bottoms, you will learn how to get away
from the best would-be kidnappers. Depending on time constraints
and the size of the class, there may be opportunities for
one-on-one practice.
Inner Monsters (Tops): Delving Into the Darkness of Our
Desires with Lee Harrington
In a world where dark fantasy has been sanitized into "Safe,
Sane and Consensual," how do we address the truths of
some of our more terrifying and terrible erotic desires? How
do we look at ourselves in the mirror after we have taken
our partner apart in the bedroom and left them broken and
battered? What do we do when our partners comes to us with
their own demons to be exorcised in the bedroom or dungeon,
and those things scare us or turn us on and we are unsure
if that makes us bad people. In this closed-group discussion
for Tops only (Switches may attend but only speak from their
experience as Tops) we will examine our own inner monsters,
discuss our fears and desires, and look honestly into the
mirror and wonder- if we feed the monster, will it consume
those we love... or if we starve it, will it eat us whole?
Inner Monsters (Bottoms): Delving Into the Darkness of Our
Desires with Lee Harrington
In a world where dark fantasy has been sanitized into "Safe,
Sane and Consensual," how do we address the truths of
some of our more terrifying and terrible erotic desires? How
do we look at ourselves in the mirror after we have been ripped
apart emotionally and physically, and how can we still look
at our partners who did this to us the loved ones we knew
before the scene? What do we do when our Tops comes to us
with their own demons to be exorcised in the bedroom or dungeon,
and those things scare us or turn us on and we are unsure
if that makes us bad people. In this closed-group discussion
for Bottoms only (Switches may attend but only speak from
their experience as Bottoms) we will examine our own inner
monsters, discuss our fears and desires, and look honestly
into the mirror and wonder- if we feed the monster, will it
consume those we love... or if we starve it, will it eat us
whole?
The Ins and Outs of Strap-ons with SwitchMe and Monkey Girl
This workshop opens up the possibilities for strap-on play
for all bodied persons. The strap-on is a simply delightful
toy. Why should the female-bodied have all the fun? Male bodies
can use this toy too and love it just as much! This workshop
will look at the equipment itself, safety and preparation,
and then we'll have fun with a live demonstration. Questions
and answers as well as audience participation is strongly
encouraged.
Mind Fucks: The Tricks to Tricking Your Submissive with
Jim & Jerith
The bottom's mind is the most versatile and powerful tool
we have in our toy bags - it's flexible, resilient, and easily
manipulated! Mind Fucking is the act of fooling your submissive
into believing you've done something you haven't. This takes
an understanding of how perception creates reality, as well
as a healthy dose of creativity and planning.
During this presentation, we will discuss the different types
of senses and how the dominant can influence the submissive's
overactive imagination by manipulating them. We will also
give an in-depth look at the methods use to pull the wool
over someone's eyes, and then demonstration a mind-fucking
scene to show all of these elements in action. We will end
the demonstration with a question and answer period to cover
the possible emotional ramifications and go over any ideas
or experiences or devious audience may have.
Mummification and Immobalization with Klawdya Rothschild
Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar and a harness is just a
harness. What do you do when you want total enclosure but
don’t want to be left with the bondage equivalent of
a human hairball to play with? What about when you have them
tied but they still have a range of motion? Wrapping, strapping,
covering and countering may be just what you need. Total skin
coverage materials, techniques and safety considerations with
an introduction to sensory deprivation to supplement your
total take-over.
Needleplay 101 - Safety & The Basic Techniques with
Zebrianna
Play piercing is the temporary subcutaneous insertion of
sterile hypodermic needles under the surface of the skin.
This can be done for sensation (either pleasure or pain) and/or
decoration. In this hands-on class & demo, we will go
over safety & negotiation, necessary equipment, space
setup & skin prep, a live demonstration on a human volunteer,
removal and clean up (including proper disposal of supplies)
& aftercare. After the instructor demo, each person who
wants to experience piercing and/or being pierced will have
the opportunity to do so with one-on-one instruction. This
workshop will also cover where to procure the materials needed
for safe play piercing.
Painsurfing - participatory intro to tantra and pain processing
with Dossie Easton
Some bottoms can ride pain as if it were a wave, full of
joy, laughing and giggling, flying on a magic journey with
their tops, possibly screaming and writhing but obviously
loving it. Ever wonder how they do it? This workshop will
demonstrate that there is as much skill and art in bottoming
as there is in topping. We will look at breathing, body tension,
ways of receiving pain, ways of delivering it, timing, pacing
rhythm and all the other tools that tops and bottoms employ
to travel with pain to amazing destinations. Participants
will get the chance to explore a shared breath and some painful
sensations, giving and receiving, with due regards for consent
and boundaries.
The Party of Your Dreams with Marcus
For Jack, going to a Sex Party is the ultimate fantasy. It’s
so titillating that nervousness overwhelms him, and he can’t
bring himself to actually attend. For Monique, the thought
of being in one is something she masturbates to, but in reality
she’s afraid some guys may be overbearing. Thomas worries
that he’s not buff enough for the other people there. Jess
is worried about her health. She wants a group sex scene,
but isn’t sure how to prevent getting anything. Yossi was
invited to one once, but feared there would not be enough
hot women for him. And as for Susan? She’s been to over twenty
and is ready to start throwing her own. Join Marcus as he
explains how to host and attend Sex Parties. From Organization
to Etiquette, from Fears to Finding The Damned Things in The
First Place, he’ll get you on the sex party path so you, too,
can “Play Well With Others.”
The Perverted Ethical Slut with Dossie Easton
Based on Dossie's research for the new edition of Slut, we
will explore communicating about and working with whatever
that complex of emotions is for you that you call jealousy.
You can dig into and safely move into ownership of your jealousy
while you learn to take care of yourself in a kindly and loving
manner if you feel jealous. You can immediately apply the
jealousy unlearning skills as you meet emotional challenges
of new friendships and loving connections. Exercises from
the new book will be available as handouts. These are the
skills that successful sluts have used to make a community
of lovers where everyone gets their needs met and no one gets
done wrong.
Playing with Yourself with Janice Stine
Don’t have a partner, but still want to play? Are there
types of play that you enjoy but your partner does not? This
class includes techniques to help you scratch your own itch,
from orphan age play to impact play, to needles, etc. Setting
up a play space in public that will not be intruded upon will
also be discussed.
Press Here for More Options: G-Spot Play for Fun and Ejaculation
w/ Sarah Sloane
So, you're a pro at getting yourself off in dozens of ways
- but have you checked out your G-spot lately? The G-spot,
or Grafenberg Spot, is a sensitive place that can be coaxed
into adding some serious zing
to your solo or partnered play...and it's not as mysterious
as you might think! Come spend an hour with Sarah Sloane and
learn how to find it, touch it, stroke it, vibrate it, toy
with it, and make it
squirt!
Red Light, Green Light - How to Stop a Scene and Start
Again with Dossie & Rae
If you haven't had to interrupt a scene, you're probably
not playing as long or as hard as you could be. Eventually,
we all run into a situation where someone in the scene needs
a break, for emotional or physical reasons. But calling "yellow"
or "red" can be a tough decision when you're not
sure how to save and resume the scene once you've paused your
play. We believe the subtle art of interrupting and restarting
scenes is a necessary and useful skill. Safewords increase
risk and intimacy and connection, and a blame-free interruption
can even lead to hotter play. When you pick back up in the
middle of a scene, you're not starting from scratch - it's
easier to relocate your turn-on than you might imagine. We'll
discuss how to pause, deal with difficulties in a space of
mutual support, and get back into the desired headspace to
complete your scene - with tips on post-scene debriefing for
difficult interruptions. As a class, we'll look at a few "case-study"
scenes to brainstorm better ways to interrupt and then jump
back in for even hotter play.
Rope Bondage Basics w/ Klawdya Rothschild
Whether to learn a new skill, translate former boy scouts
knowledge into something kinky, or to begin the road to mastering
this demanding discipline, this basics class will teach you
several usable Japanese-style ties for you to practice and
build your skill set. Safety, body positions, rope type, equipment,
preparation, and style will be covered in a hands-on atmosphere.
With these simple tools learned you can begin to create the
intricate scenes in your mind and decode the secrets underlying
all Shibari tying. Bring rope (2x 30ft lengths, 1×10-15ft
length)
Sting - How to Let It In and Love It with Dossie & Rae
Sting can be sweet or evil, vicious and/or delicious. Its
intensity can be hard to handle, and even harder to love.
It's mysteriously alluring - unbearable in the moment and
oh so rewarding as it unfolds. Why do we bother with canes,
singletails, and other skinny toys? How do we, as bottoms,
learn to live with, enjoy, or even come from this challenging
sort of play? One of us is a sting-fiend who loves to go traveling
and flying on sting; the other is a reluctant convert to the
love-hate pleasure of sting. We'll share the techniques experienced
pain junkies use to transcend the difficulties and ride the
sensation-waves of stingy play.
Tops can learn the tricks of laying it on while bottoms learn
how to let it in. We will guide you through a hands-on exploration
of how to take this sharp, swift sensation. Come alone or
with a partner, and feel free to bring along a stingy toy
that you'd like to learn to love.
Stretching for Play with Janice Stine
An interactive demonstration sharing stretching techniques
for tops and bottoms, since we all know that a knotted muscle
can quickly end a scene. Stretching for bottoms will include
stretches to extend ability to remain standing, on knees,
in bondage, or other positions for a length of time. For tops
it will include stretches to loosen wrists, shoulders, and
backs for increased comfort and endurance.
The Terrified Top - Topping for newbies, reluctant service
tops, and kink-curious vanilla folks dating masochists with
Rae Goldman
So you want to top. Or maybe you don't, but your partner
wants you to. Either way, you're about to top for the first
time, and you feel - excited? turned on? scared shitless?
all of the above?
Come learn the basics of topping and how to get your first
scene started. Learn how to master the fear, or hide it, or
use it to your advantage. There are many ways to be a top
- dominant, sadistic, nurturing, service-oriented, serious,
humorous - and many ways to learn to top - through co-topping,
from a mentor, by bottoming, or just by jumping into the deep
end and trying it! Come find out about all your options and
pick up tips and tricks to make your first scenes better and
less terrifying.
*Bottoms, switches, and fearless tops are welcome too.
The Ultimate Guide to Being a Lazy Top w/ FifthAngel
It takes a lot of work to be a Top, doesn’t it? All
that knot-tying and flogging and spanking really makes you
work up a sweat. And your lucky bottom just gets to lie there
and drift off into la-la-land. Well, now it’s time to
turn the tables.
With the proper mindset, technique, big ol’ honkin’
toys and a willing participant, you too can enjoy endless
hours of sadomasochistic pleasures from your favorite La-Z-BoyTM
chair. Yes, that’s right, FifthAngel will reveal the
hidden secrets of the ancient art of getting everything from
doing nothing.
Watersports with Marcus
One of the most taboo of sexual acts, Watersports/Golden
Showers/Piss Play is HOT! Even if you don’t yet agree, you
have to admit, at least it’s warm. If you like that warm feeling...
of piss flowing over your body... in your hair... maybe even
gulping it down “from the tap” then you should definitely
come to this class. Join Marcus, a Piss Aficionado, as he
discusses the history, safety, and the fun of piss play. Then,
watch (or join in) a demo. Remember: It’s better to be pissed
on than pissed off!
Waxing: Hair Removal with Janice Stine
Want to make your mark on your bottom without making it permanent?
Looking to find a different sensation technique? Or something
new to increase the fear factor? This class will cover the
basic steps involved in large area hair removal. Come and
see how wax can be used to evoke sensations that your bottom
has not experienced during play, and take a little more control
over their grooming.
What Do We Do Now? The Artist's Way to Designing Scenes with
Nayland Blake
Beyond simply an excuse to get off, the BDSM scene is an
intimate performance where the directors and actors are also
the audience. But a lot of times we don't take that into account
when we playing with someone. This class introduces a five
step method for coming up with, planning and executing scenes
based on the ways by which artists construct their pieces.
Learn how to articulate goals and wants for a scene, and how
to get more out of your play in ways that engage your creativity.
Wild Rope - Bondage Techniques from the Great Outdoors with
Rae Goldman
Wilderness rescue has it all - from simple restraints for
individual body parts to full-body immobilization and suspension
techniques, all perfect for kink. The goals in "packaging"
a patient for evacuation match with our goals for play - immobilize
part or all of a body; maintain use of or access to other
body parts; package the person tightly enough that they can't
move (or escape); and maintain circulation and comfort while
keeping the bondage in place for hours on end. Rescue mixes
rope and medical play and gives great opportunities for gear
improvisation, humor, water sports, suspension, group scenes,
and, of course, outdoors play. Come learn, hands-on.
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