Zee

I’m Zee (he/they), I’ve been in the kink community since turning 18, nearly 2 decades ago, and stepping into the old SF Citadel. I’ve been teaching both in and outside of kink since I was in high school, and in the kink world since my early 20’s as well as serving as both a house top and house bottom. During COVID-19, I decided to focus a lot more energy on kink community education and have spent the last 3.5 years pursuing that at full steam with private and public engagements including a very well-received Ion class last year. Teaching classes for newest newbies and seasoned kinksters alike for organizations like Society of Janus, Wicked Grounds, After Dark Events, and Bonobo Network, as well as private engagements and coaching. I’ve been designing the classes I’ve wanted to see as a queer impact switch. My classes focus on edutainment, come for the material, but stay for the fun and highly relevant demos!

Zee's Workshops

Beating Their Meat - Genital Torture for Fun and Pleasure

Genital Torture – a topic so provocative that just hearing it mentioned can make some of us wince with phantom pain. But for those brave enough to explore its depths, it opens up an entirely new and intense avenue of play. No matter if you have a penis or a vulva, this class dives deep into the world of genital torture, catering to both the sadists who enjoy delivering pain and the masochists who thrive on receiving it. By adding this intense form of play to your repertoire, you’ll be exploring a whole new layer of sensation and connection between partners.
Led by Zee, this class will guide you through a wide array of techniques designed to enhance your scenes and expand your understanding of the possibilities within genital torture. With the help of their demo partners, Zee will offer hands-on demonstrations, showcasing everything from light sensation play to more intense forms of torment. Safety pointers will be a key focus, ensuring you can incorporate these techniques while minimizing risk and ensuring the well-being of everyone involved.
In addition to techniques, the class will delve into the importance of communication and consent. You'll learn how to negotiate boundaries and limits, and how to establish clear and honest dialogue before, during, and after a genital torture scene. Whether you’re a seasoned player or someone curious to explore this challenging kink, this class will equip you with the knowledge and tools to approach genital torture with confidence, care, and creativity.

Long Term Lockup: Chastity play for fun and frustration

If you’re thinking of locking up for the first time or you’re ready to throw away the keys, there’s a ton to learn about chastity. In this workshop, Zee, whose been playing with chastity since 2015, and spent over a year locked up in a tight little cage, will be discussing a host of topics and busting myths. What cage materials are best? Is an expensive cage really that much better than the $15 dollar cage on Amazon? How do you measure for your chastity cage? When should you unlock, and should you really be reaching for that superglue?

Unlike those who wear these devices, chastity has absolutely burst onto the scene in the last 5 years, but with it have come a whole host of fud, fantasies, and falsities. Whether you’re a keyholder or ready to be locked up, there is a lot to dive into. Let’s break down power dynamics, self-locking, and impulse control, as well as fun ways to tease, edge, and explore the deep sexual frustration that so many of us desire with chastity.