Temptress Ari

Self dubbed “professional queer”, Temptress Ari (she/her) is a switchy slutty poly sadomasochistic femme. She first discovered the kink community nearly 15 years ago and has been in love ever since. An educator for most of her life, Ari loves to teach about sex, gender, sexuality, nonmonogamy, and kink. She harbors a passion for equity, authenticity, and community, and is thrilled to share her skills and knowledge with other perverts and deviants. A real life rainbow unicorn, Ari is also a dog mom, an avid knitter, and lover of all things sparkly.

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Temptress Ari's Workshops


Ethical Non Monogamy 101: Don't Hunt Unicorns - Temptress Ari

Relationships can be tough to navigate- and that’s when you’re following a “traditional path”. Add in nonmonogamy, and you have a whole new set of questions and challenges to work through. This workshop will introduce the umbrella concept of ethical nonmonogamy and the different relationship structures that fall within it, including polyamory, swinging, and so much more! We’ll cover vocabulary, communication methods, and problem-solving when things get sticky. Whether you're just starting to think about ENM or you've been poly for years, this workshop will provide opportunities for questions and experience sharing for all.


Fisting 101

Fitting someone’s whole hand inside you can seem wildly intimidating, but for some of us, that’s half the fun! Whether you’re topping or bottoming, fisting is not an entry level activity. This workshop covers the logistics of fisting, from why to how, including safety, negotiation, technique, and aftercare. For the cautiously curious and the salaciously seeking alike, this workshop will both inform and tantalize, concluding with a live demo.


Genitorture for innie bits

Clothespins, whartenburg wheels, toothpaste, and cinnamon oil- what do all these things have in common? They can be used to torture vulvas, innie bits, or front holes! This workshop will cover the anatomy and safety of genitorture before moving on to discuss negotiation, mechanics and creating truly terrible situations for willing bottoms. Typically taught with a demo bottom to allow for live demo of some techniques.


Yoga for the Round and Inflexible

Yoga is often viewed as a thing that only skinny bendy women do while wearing their lulu lemons, but it’s so much more than that! Temptress Ari teaches a gentle yoga that is accessible to all: fat folks, masc folks, people who can’t touch their toes- if you have a body, you can do yoga!

Type of workshop: Participation Required