sea (undergroundsea)

Undergroundsea has attended kink events for 20+ years. He presents nationally to help people communicate and understand each other’s kink, especially submission. He serves on Advisory Board for DomCon BDSM weekend conventions. Previously, he wrote a BDSM column for fearlesspress.com, represented BDSM on college campuses and mainstream forums, and chaired Austin TNG for 4 years. He splits time between Austin and DC. He performed with a DC kinky burlesque and comedy troupe. He helped keep Austin weird by arranging fetish nights where he wrote, performed in, and DJ’d music for fetish shows. BDSM influences his artistic expression in the form of fetish photography, DJing music, dance, writings, and kinky stand-up comedy.

sea (undergroundsea)'s Workshops


My Partner Wants Me to Dominate. Now What?

So you've a partner who wants to be submissive to you. Now what? Or maybe
you've already started down that path but need more ideas or would like to understand why your partner feels that way. Learn common challenges and how to overcome them. Walk away knowing how to make the experience fun and hot for you, and what questions to ask your partner to better understand how they are wired. Expect to see some models for different types of submission and tips for how to get meaningful information when asking questions. Then we'll take example scenarios and brainstorm possibilities. Bring questions!