Reid Mihalko

As seen on NETFLIX' "Chelsea Does..." alongside Chelsea Handler, Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship geek who threw an orgy for Oprah's OWN Network on Lisa Ling's ""Our America."" He has led thousands of workshops and play parties, and his work has been covered by media outlets across 7 continents. His charisma and easy to understand, pragmatic advice has helped people at virtual and in-person events. His workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 60,000 people from across the globe.

Reid would also like you to know that, in early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a transformative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability.

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Reid Mihalko's Workshops


Oral Sex Grad School

Would you like to take your current craft & skills to Jedi levels? Want to ask those nagging questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks? Looking for an “excuse” to give (or receive) oral that leaves your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”

Let sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean (see what he did there?!) and give you your PhD in oral so YOU can give and/or receive mind-blowing blowjobs, cunnilingus, analingus that leaves YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!

In this educating, informational, and guaranteed-to-be-funny workshop filled with LIVE demonstrations where you can watch, learn, and ask plenty of question, Reid will cover:

How to leverage the pleasure anatomy of the pelvis to turbo-charge your ability to give and receive pleasure regardless of what you’re packing!
How the movie Top Gun will help you “lock on to you target” and give mind-blowing cunnilingus…
Reid’s best tips and tricks for helping your penis owner not cum too quickly from your amazing skills…
How to stack the deck in everyone’s favor when it come to having multiple orgasms…
How to combine fingers, toys, and your talented tongue to give amazing analingus
Ways to remember that GREAT cunnilingus isn’t only about your tongue and how to use your neck, forearms, and shoulders when pleasuring vulvas…
Positions and other ergonomics for penis owners and vulva owners that will heighten their sensation while allowing you to last longer ‘cause you’re not working so hard!
Advanced skills to master deep throating, ball play, squirting, “dick-chomping” multiple orgasms…
How to pleasure a flaccid cock!
Reid’s Inverted Vulcan technique as well as his “wrist brace”…
The infamous “Flying Squirrel” technique, PLUS how to do a Double Blowjob…
Plus a few other graduate-level, sexy secrets that will leave you feeling inspired and confident!
What Others Got From Attending:
“Thank you so much for the class! I tried out my new knowledge out on my partner and WOW. Just wow. He loved it. Then it was my turn and OHMAIGAD WOW. Thaaaaank you!”
~MishPen, Oakland CA

Join us for a low-pressure, shame-reducing, and skill enhancing workshop for all orientations, genders, and experience levels!


Pegging Grad School

If you…

Are curious about strap-on play and pegging (anal penetration usually on a man via a strap-on harness and dildo) but have never tried it…
Already have your Masters Degree in dildos and prostate pleasure but are looking for a few advanced techniques…
Trying to help a loved one who’s not sure if pegging is for them, but could use some empowering, shame-free tips…
Want to leave your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”
Then you’re in the right place

Let “America’s favorite sxx geek,” sxx & relationship educator (and veteran peg’ster) Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean and help you get your PhD in pegging so YOU can create great strap-on experiences that leave YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!

The idea of strap-on play no longer exists as something solely for lesbians and dominatrixes, or for television (Remember the Broad City episode where Abbi is presented with Jeremy’s custom green dildo?!). Pegging (nods to sxx columnist Dan Savage for coining the term), and the play surrounding it, can be a sxxy, fun and adventurous way for men, women, and folks of all genders to explore new dynamics and sensations in the bedroom. Yet, without a game partner or a certain amount of experience and communication confidence, pegging can be a nerve-wracking adventure all but destined to end badly.

Butt- Reid and his friends are here to help!

In this informative and humorous workshop, where you get to watch, take notes, and ask any and all your questions, you will learn:

Strap-On approaches for All Genders
Simple yet advanced techniques for fun and easy bottoming/receiving
Communication and negotiation skills that will deepen your love life…
Safer Sxx protocols and hygiene tips
Group Strap-On Play tips and techniques for threesomes, foursomes, and Moresomes
And much, much more!
Regardless of your gender, sxxual orientation, level of experience, relationship status, or what you’re packing beneath your clothes (or in your sxx toy bag), this class will cover how to show yourself and your lovers how to give and receive more pleasure through pegging.


Push, Pull, Squeeze & Squirt: Welcome to Splooshville (with LIVE Demos!)

This workshop will help you understand the pelvic floor's essential roles in squirting, multiple orgasms, ejaculatory control, and the giving and receiving techniques to encourage squirting.

If you thought such things were beyond you or your partner... Think again.

Using a unique, humorous, shame-free, and informative show 'n tell then ask questions approach to teaching with live demonstrations, Reid and his demo partner will demystify and make accessible tools and approaches you can try back at your room or in the dungeon!

What We Will Cover:

Pelvic Floor, Sex Toy + Hand & Finger Techniques To Encourage Squirting: While squirting should never be goal-oriented, there are plenty of skills and approaches that can help everyone increase their success rates while avoiding common mistakes and “feeling broken"
Multiple Orgasms Giving & Receiving: Learn how to listen to your partner's body and help them increase their pelvic floor pleasure to increase everyone's chances of more O's not less... If you're on the receiving end, learn how to make adjustments and ask for the adjustments that are the differences that make the difference!
Ejaculatory Techniques: From edging to orgasm without ejaculation, learn a variety of approaches you can try and explore!

This workshop will include LIVE demonstrations that will include nudity and be of an explicit nature. Attendees will remain clothed and be encouraged to take notes and ask questions. Bring your curious and open minds as well as your fears and concerns so Reid and company can help you grow at your own pace.

As with all of Reid’s workshops, everyone is at choice to leave early or take breaks if the class content or demonstrations ever feel too intense. We recognize that show 'n tell workshops dealing with adult skills and nudity may bring up all sorts of feelings and emotions from time to time, and we want to create a brave space for you to honor yourself and give yourself room to take care of yourself. Pausing your experience and giving yourself space is equally valuable (If not more so) than "staying the whole time." Reid believes that YOU taking care of yourself is one of the keys to unlocking the mysteries and power you hold.


Threesome Grad School

You’ve learned the basics… It’s time to get your masters in pleasing not just TWO PEOPLE at the same time, but THREE (Because your pleasure counts, too!)… Come geek out, ask questions during the live demos, and leave with your PhD in ménage à trois!

IF YOU…

Would like to take your current 3way skills to Jedi levels…
Want to ask those black belt-level questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks…
Wish you could leave two people stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!” so they invite you back for MORE threesomes…
THEN THIS IS THE CLASS FOR YOU!

YOU WILL LEARN…

Advanced hand techniques for pleasing two people at the same time
Ergonomic positions and body adjustments so you can keep pleasing two people for as long as it takes!
How to track the arousal of two people simultaneously and why that is important
Blackbelt applications for Reid’s “Embrace The Awkward Formula”
Oral techniques such as the “FLippity-Flop” & the “Flying Squirrel”
Advance techniques for receiving tremendous amounts of pleasure from two people
Ways to help everyone not only feel included but aroused and so enthusiastic & safe that they ask for what they really want
Let sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean (see what he did there?!) and give you your advanced degree in threeways so YOU can leave your lovers and yourself feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!

Whether you’ve had more threesomes than the artist formerly known as Prince or are just beginning to consider three-in-a-bed, this workshop will give you plenty of tools, tricks, perspectives and laughs to double your pleasure without destroying your relationships!

This class will include LIVE demonstrations as well as time for folks to explore basic communication concepts with each other! Bring a buddy to practice with… Better yet, bring two or three!