Ember Solaris

Ember Solaris (Fetlife: @xSolaris) is a professional and lifestyle Dominant and Sadist. They are a social scientist and educational presenter and regularly provide virtual classes. They research emotions/emotion regulation, interpersonal relationships, trauma, addictive behaviors, etc. They are trained in many therapy modalities but do not currently practice as they are more research-oriented. They have a Primal Mate dynamic with their partner, and explore the boundaries of S&M/Edge Play, Primal Play, Femdom, and many other interests with their play partners. See more on their website at https://bio.site/embersolaris for information on her upcoming classes and tours. Learn what to expect from Ember's classes here: https://fetlife.com/users/15467082/posts/10348564

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Ember Solaris's Workshops


Artistic Flogging:

Elevate your flogging game from skilled to spectacular in this immersive workshop. Unleash the captivating allure of artistic flogging as we transform it into a mesmerizing performance art. Whether you're a novice or seasoned player, discover the secrets to crafting unforgettable scenes that mesmerize both the mind and body. From mastering transitions to selecting the perfect implements, this hands-on session promises to ignite your creativity. Bring your favorite floggers and prepare to explore footwork, choreography, flourishes and more. Don't worry bottoms, we've got tips in store for you too. Join us and unlock the artistry of flogging like never before. Wear something comfortable, and keep hydrated, because this promises to be a bit of a workout. Adaptations for mobility differences are possible.

Type of workshop: Participation Appreciated


Mating in Captivity: Primal Dynamics and Play

Unlock the primal allure of intense connections. While steadily growing more popular as a kink identity and role, little is discussed on the nature of Primal dynamics. Dive into the wild world of primal energy, whether with your mate, pack, prey, or within your own primal essence. Discover the secrets to creating and enhancing authentic primal connections in this interactive workshop. We'll talk about methods for discovering and accepting sides of ourselves that we may feel distant from, and how to set the stage for connection in that raw space. We'll also tackle some of the more practical aspects of negotiation, risk mitigation, consent, etc. Whether you're a newcomer to primal play or a seasoned veteran, this session is tailor-made for you. Gain invaluable insights into negotiation techniques, explore diverse dynamics, and ignite the primal spark that has sparked the interest of erotica enthusiasts everywhere. Don't miss your chance to bring the primal fireworks to your relationships. This session will include a handout with conversation outlines intended to deepen your Primal connections, though you may also wish to bring something to take notes with.

Type of workshop: Participation Appreciated


Ritualistic Kink

Journey into the heart of human connection as we delve into the timeless practice of rituals, specifically within the context of kink. From simple acts of intimacy to elaborate ceremonies, discover how rituals can enrich and deepen your kink experiences. Explore the art of creating meaning and connection, navigating discomfort, and customizing rituals to suit your unique dynamics. Join us as we explore the transformative power of rituals and forge deeper connections. You may wish to bring something to take notes with.

Type of workshop: Participation Appreciated


Trauma-Informed Kink

Unlock the power of trauma informed kink exploration in this session. Equip yourself to create more empathetic spaces within the kink community by understanding trauma and its impact. From setting up play spaces to crafting event advertisements, this class empowers kink enthusiasts with essential knowledge on what trauma is, how it affects us, and how it does so. Explore the nuances of trauma reactions, post-traumatic growth, and the importance of respecting diverse experiences. Please note, this session is for educational purposes only and does not involve therapy or trauma discussion. Join us for a lecture-style discussion that fosters understanding and respect for trauma-aware practices.

Type of workshop: Participation Appreciated