Happy Hours

A 10-year tradition, our Happy Hours offer a unique social experience for the kink-minded, allowing you to mix and mingle without being “tied” to a table like a traditional munch!

We strive to create a relaxed, pressure-free environment in which to meet new and familiar faces.

We’ve expanded to three cities on two coasts, and we’re keeping the door open for more in the future!

Remember, we’re all adults here, and we expect you to behave like adults. Use good judgment if you choose to drink.

The different locations meet on different schedules, so check below for specific information about the one you’d like to attend, and we’ll see you there!


Our flagship Happy Hour! Offering a private upstairs lounge, good food and drink, and easy Metro accessibility!
Meets every Thursday
Dupont Italian Kitchen, 1637 17th St NW, Washington DC 20009
6:30 – 11pm
Food/drink available: Yes/Yes
Dress code: Street legal

DO: San Francisco

Come mingle, hang out, and play in the new DO Lounge and Sex-O-Rama Rumpus Room in SOMA! We’ve even got a full dungeon to play in!
Meets 2nd Thursday of the month
Alchemy, 1060 Folsom St, San Francisco CA 94103
7pm – Midnight
$15 cover charge
Food/drink available: BYO
Dress code: Anything goes!

DO: Baltimore Beyond

Relaxation, socializing, and light play mixed together to make a fun, inclusive atmosphere for everyone!
Meets every 1st & 3rd Wednesday of the month
Castaways Bar & Grille, 2206 Boston St, Baltimore MD 21231
8pm – Midnight
Food/drink available: BYO or have food delivered/Yes
Dress code: Street legal