Lolita Wolf discovered the BDSM scene back when “online” meant the phone sex lines. An activist who defends sexual freedom for all consenting adults, spreads the word about BDSM, sex and poly, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains "to have fun." Known for a fun and entertaining style that packs a lot of information into a short class. Emeritus Board Member of both TES and LLC. Former Chair of LSM and Honorary Member of GMSMA. Active with NCSF and LPN. Author (latest work is a chapter in Ultimate Guide To Kink).

Lolita's Workshops

Kidz Rule! Age Play For Consenting Adults

Age Play is fantasy role play where the reality of your and your partner’s (or partners’) age and/or gender does not matter. We are talking about consenting adults here – this is not about pedophilia! Age play can be for a scene or can be incorporated into a 24/7 relationship. It might include sex, D/s SM or not. Come and learn how to be a kid again! Or how to relate to someone who likes to be a kid!

Type of workshop: Lecture, Discussion

Relationships from Scratch

Death to all -isms!!! In this diverse community, an off-the-rack relationship dynamic can be a recipe for disaster. Rather than conform to someone else’s idea of how love and happiness ought to be shared, learn to communicate your unique needs and wants with your partner(s)! By choosing to create your own rules together, you can break free of the cookie-cutter molds that hold people’s imaginations hostage, and tailor make your lives and relationships so they actually work for YOU!!!

Type of workshop: Lecture, Discussion

Single Tails – The Epitome of SM

This sexy activity can range from delicate to cruel. Lolita will speak about using a whip for play, different types of whips, the physics of whip motion, buying a whip and the cleaning and caring of your whip. A demo will cover the dynamics of a whip scene from negotiation through aftercare.

Type of workshop: Lecture, Demo