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Bridging Kink, Sex and Spirit

Surrender — November 13-15, 2015 — San Francisco

Nearly a thousand people came out for Dark Odyssey’s West Coast event last November, and we are thrilled to announce the return of DO: Surrender to the City by the Bay for 2015! Come learn, explore, and play in a no holds barred, sexually charged atmosphere. Interactive workshops fill your days, while at night you’ll explore dark dungeons, powerful rituals, passionate scenes, and mind-blowing ecstasy all under one roof in a proven scene friendly hotel in downtown San Francisco.

Join us as we combine sexuality, spirituality, education and play in an immersive environment where fantasy becomes reality. We are omnisexual – straight, gay, bi, queer, trans, and genderqueer. We are leatherfolk, kinksters, swingers, cross dressers, sex educators, Tantra practitioners, Pagans, and perverts. We are vanilla and kinky, beginners and veterans, singles, couples, triads, and more.

Dark Odyssey: Surrender features:

Over 40 local & national educators, authors & activists

80+ unique & dynamic workshops & special events

Classes on BDSM, polyamory, sex, tantra & spirituality

20,000 sq ft of fully equipped dungeons

Sex-O-Rama play space

Parties, events & open play until 3:00am

Carnal Casino & Auction

Pacific Coast Power Exchange contest

Meet & Greets, Hospitality Suite and sensual exploration events

Queer & gender queer mixer

Sacred sexuality rituals

Hook suspension experiences

Burlesque, drag & kinky performances from local & national talents

Downtown San Francisco kink friendly hotel

Join us on an adventure where we play, discover, and learn to achieve more ecstatic states of love, awareness, and personal sexuality. Dark Odyssey Surrender will immerse you in an atmosphere of sexual energy and experimentation that will add excitement and passion to your relationships and create deeper levels of connection between you and your partners.

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Full Day, Workshop Only, and Party Only passes are now available. But you must pre-register for Surrender as no walk ups are allowed. Hurry and register now … its almost here!

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Surrender goes from the early morning until … the really early morning, about 3am each day. Check out the tons of workshops, special events and parties.

Workshop Schedule


Join us each 2nd Thursday of the month for the best Thursday night happy hour and play party in San Francisco! Check out the DO:SF Fetlife group for more info and updates.


The host hotel is sold out. We are looking at nearby hotels to see what the best deal is and will post that information as soon as we have it. Unfortunately, we are not currently taking any more names on the waiting list for the host hotel.

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