Stefanos & Shay

Stefanos & Shay ( are a vivacious, unconventional D/s couple whose entertaining, information-packed classes have been called "better than a Vegas act.” They identify as pansexual polyamorous playsluts, purveyors of perversion, and alliteration fetishists! Shay is an ER nurse by day, education director for Dark Odyssey: Surrender and the SF Citadel by night, while Stefanos is all kink all the time as the Producer/Steward of The Upper Floor on and DM & CEO of Bondage-a-Go-Go. Together they created & wrote the bondage education website They are based in San Francisco, where they host over 100 events a year (including BENT, Twisted Windows, Master’s Den, the Upper Floor, & Bondage-a-Go-Go) and were named King & Queen of Pervert's Prom in 2006! Together they hold the title of International Power Exchange 2014.

They have performed, presented, and hosted around the country and internationally, including at Dark Odyssey (Winter Fire, Surrender, & Fusion), Rome BDSM Conference, Thunder in the Mountains, KinkFest, Northwest Leather Celebration, Westcoast Bound, San Francisco State University, Stanford University, OpenSF, Kinky Kollege, Beyond Leather, the SF Citadel, Mission Control, Center for Sex and Culture, the Exotic Erotic Ball, International Ms Leather, BayCon, COPE, Mischief in May, Folsom Fringe, and Cum & Glitter. They've also been featured on,, BehindKink, Discovery Channel's Oddities, Skin Two, KinkUniversity, and in over half a dozen documentaries across the world.