Sejay is a smiley, pansexual, genderqueer, biracial, poly switch who has been a professional sexuality trainer for the past 8 years to audiences aged 8 to 80. In & out of the dungeon, they specialize in sexy safer sex, trans* lovin', service dynamics, & open relationships (check out their latest project "The Open Road Map" They swoon for a good pun, mature genderfucking, and general geekery. In their free time, sejay struts the stage as a drag performer & kink workshop presenter. You can usually find them running around in nerdy glasses, mustache gear, and a big, enthusiastic grin. [Editor's note: "Sejay/sejay" intentionally lettered with both upper & lower case. "They/them" pronouns proudly used instead of "he" or "she"].

Sejay's Workshops


If you're new to Dark Odyssey &/or new to weekend play party events in general, be sure to attend our one-of-a-kind Orientation. Sejay and a fellow experienced conference hottie will model the amazing things you'll see throughout your weekend. Come enjoy our interactive ask-for-a-date practice game, playspace etiquette with sexy demos, overview of the hotel spaces we've perverted - err converted for you, & tips to maximize your good time at play-oriented conferences. Orientations are only 45 minutes & happen multiple times throughout the weekend. Plus, first-timers get a free gift!