Stefanos and Shay

Stefanos & Shay ( are a vivacious, unconventional D/s couple whose entertaining, information-packed classes have been called "better than a Vegas act.” They identify as pansexual polyamorous playsluts, purveyors of perversion, & alliteration fetishists!

Shay is an ER nurse by day; Stefanos is the Producer of The Upper Floor on and CEO of Bondage-a-Go-Go. They are based in San Francisco, where they host over 60 events a year (including BENT, Twisted Windows, Master’s Den, The Upper Floor, Self-Suspension Open Space, & Bondage-a-Go-Go) and were named King & Queen of Pervert's Prom in 2006! They created the bondage safety web site and have performed, presented, & hosted around the country & internationally.

Stefanos and Shay's Workshops

Helllooo Nurse! Taking a Stab at Medical Play

Get under the skin and start those endorphins flowing! Shay (an ER nurse) and Stefanos (a filthy pervert who loves making a bloody mess) will provide a foundation of knowledge that applies to any sort of medical play your kinky heart desires, from piercing to catheters to cutting. This class is focused on basics like setting up a clean zone, sharps handling, negotiation, risk awareness, and more. Shay, resplendent in her sexy nurse outfit, and Stefanos, resplendent in his... uh... bloody lab coat? ... will include numerous demos and a ridiculous amount of information!

Type of workshop: Lecture, Discussion, Demo

If You Like It Then You Should Put a Ring On It! Cock Play from Nice to Naughty

Whether you want to be naughty or nice to the cock(s) in your life, this class will have something for you! Stefanos & Shay will start with a basic discussion of cock anatomy, communication for cock play, and differences between circumcised, intact, and strap-on cocks.

They will then discuss and demo ways to be "nice" to cocks, including:
* Manual techniques (aka "handjobs") -- lube options, adding vibrators, and more!
* Oral sex techniques that will blow minds
* Tips on both giving and receiving blowjobs
* Tricks for finding out what works (and doesn’t) for your partner
* Putting Dominance and submission into your cock play

Next they'll get a little "naughty" and will demonstrate:
* Using a variety of store-bought cock rings -- pros and cons of different types and why you want to use one in the first place
* Fun and easy cock and ball bondage -- bring a willing stunt cock if you'd like to practice along! Cord for use in class will be provided!
* More intense types of cock and ball play (such as using clothespins and small impact play toys)
* Depending on time and class interest, they may discuss and even demo play piercing of the cock and balls!

As there are a lot of topics to cover, this class should be considered a survey and overview of these subjects.

Type of workshop: Lecture, Discussion, Demo, Hands-On

It's a Trap! Playful Scenes and Non-Bondage Predicaments

This isn’t always serious work we do! Predicaments are all about putting your bottom between the proverbial rock and hard place (and laughing as they are flummoxed by their situation); playful BDSM is about giggling together in scene and making your bottom participate in their own torment. This class will show you how to bring a new level of engagement to your BDSM play and go beyond giving and receiving sensations – create story lines and connect mentally with your partner. Stefanos & Shay will also address the bottom’s perspective, including communicating within the mood of your scene and detailed discussion of bratting. Leave your rope bag at home — this is NOT a bondage class! In addition to demonstrating many specific predicaments and games, Stefanos & Shay will discuss this type of play in a broad sense to guide you in developing your own unique scenes. (This class is mostly demo and lecture, with some discussion.)

Type of workshop: Lecture, Discussion, Demo

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